Lev Väl!

How can the heart & mind feel totally opposite about a sitatuation, almost as if your mind knows better than what your heart does even tho our mind are more concious then our hearts we subconsiously always "follow our hearts",but in the end we sometimes realize that our hearts can steer us the wrong way when emotions get involved, & even then our mind STILL knows whats right but there is not a way of communicating what we know is right and what we feel is right. so if we dont wanna listen to our minds and follow our hearts , what is the right thing to do? .doesnt it feel like no matter how much thinking we do or what we choose to follow some way or some how its not what we really want.